Hey
guys, I just want to share with you all about the word “RESPONSIBILITY” here. I
may sound too preachy here but let us be reminded how we can best display being
responsible. It can help us examine our
life’s check and balance status. Henceforth, we can reassess if we are still
within its frame.
For
all we know, at times we fall short of being responsible. Our selfish attitude
sometimes befalls us to its trap and we somehow take for granted to exercise
responsibility over people and things in our own life.
Responsibility
is taking care of your duties. Responsibility
is answering for your actions. Responsibility
is accountability. Responsibility
is trustworthiness.
Why is being responsible important?
Responsibility
is a core value for living honorably.
Responsibility
is being accountable for your behavior.
Responsibility
is being dependable when you have things to do.
Examples of responsibility
You
complete your chores at home without being constantly reminded.
You
take good care of your personal possessions.
You
come home on time.
You
call your parents if you are late.
You
eat healthy food, get plenty of exercise, and take good care of yourself.
You
take care of your lunch money and don't lose it on the playground.
You
keep a promise.
You
put part of your allowance into a savings account instead of spending it all.
You
complete your school assignments on time and to the best of your ability.
You
take care of your pet.
You
return library books on time.
Responsible children
Understand
and accept consequences for their actions and try to correct their mistake
Complete
assignments and tasks
Clean
up after themselves
Do
the "right thing" and apologize if wrong
Help
others in need
Follow
through without giving up
Understand
the effect they have on others
Heroes and heroines
Eddie
Akau - was a well-known surfer with great strength of character and a
willingness to sacrifice for others. As a lifeguard, he saved over a thousand
people.
Nellie
Bly - was a newspaper reporter who advocated women's rights and exposed
terrible conditions in the slums, hospitals, factories, prisons, and
orphanages.
Thomas
Jefferson - was the primary author of the Declaration of Independence. As
president, he tried to reorganize the courts of law, establish a system of
public education, and guarantee religious freedom.
Eleanor
Roosevelt - modeled civic and national responsibility as a social activist.
Harry
S. Truman - as president, never shirked his duties and always accepted full
responsibility for his decisions.
Booker
T. Washington - founded the Tuskegee Institute, a school for blacks, and
promoted improving job skills.
Proverbs and maxims
Ideas
don't work unless we do.
He
who is not ready today will be even less so tomorrow.
If
everyone sweeps in front of his own front door, all the world would be clean.
What
is popular is not always right. What is right is not always popular.
More quotes on responsibility
Responsibility
educates. (Wendell Phillips)
The
price of greatness is responsibility. (Winston Churchill)
No
man was ever endowed with a right without being at the same time saddled with a
responsibility. (Gerald Johnson)
Man
is still responsible. His success lies not with the stars but with himself.
(Frank Williams)
Steps to making responsible decisions
Define
your goal. What do you want?
Explore
all the choices and options.
Gather
information and facts.
Write
down arguments for and against each choice.
Take
time to think through the consequences of each choice.
Make
the decision.
Put responsibility into action
Clean
your room without being asked.
Throw
away your trash and pick up some litter.
Practice
self-control when you feel angry.
Clean
up your area after lunch and encourage your friends to do the same.
Follow
through on all assignments at school and chores at home.
Do
your chores at home without being asked.
Look
for something extra to do at home or in your community that is helpful.
Organize
a park cleanup.
Keep
a promise even if it is hard.
Express
your anger with appropriate words and actions.
Community service ideas
Clean
up your own back yard by collecting rubbish and recycling items around the
school and home.
Organize
a graffiti cleanup party.
Volunteer
at a local community center helping younger students with recreation, crafts,
and other activities.
Sponsor
a canned food drive at your school.
Many types of responsibilities
MORAL
RESPONSIBILITY to other people, animals, and the earth. This means caring,
defending, helping, building, protecting, preserving, and sustaining. You're
accountable for treating other people justly and fairly, for honoring other
living things, and for being environmentally aware.
LEGAL
RESPONSIBILITY to the laws and ordinances of your community, state, and
country. If there's a law you believe is outdated, discriminatory, or unfair,
you can work to change, improve, or eliminate it. You can't simply decide to
disobey it.
FAMILY
RESPONSIBILITY means treating your parents, siblings, and other relatives with
love and respect, following your parents' rules, and doing chores and duties at
home.
COMMUNITY
RESPONSIBILITY. As a part of the community, you're responsible for treating
others as you want to be treated, for participating in community activities and
decisions, and for being an active, contributing citizen. Pick up trash to keep
the community clean. Read local and community newspapers to stay informed. Vote
in elections when you're old enough.
RESPONSIBILITY
TO CUSTOMS, TRADITIONS, BELIEFS, AND RULES. These might come from your family,
your community, your heritage, or your faith. Learn what they are and do your
best to respect and follow them.
PERSONAL
RESPONSIBILITY. It's up to you to become a person of good character. Your
parents, teachers, religious leaders, scout leaders, and other caring adults
will guide you, but only you can determine the kind of person you are and
ultimately become. So get organized, be punctual, and honor your commitments.
How to plan to carry out obligations
Write
a list of all the things you need to do.
Write
down when each task or jobs needs to be done.
Write
down what you'll need to accomplish each task or job.
Always
have a backup plan - a "plan B."
More activities
Tell
about an experience where you exhibited or did not show responsibility.
Think
of a new skill or talent you'd like to develop. Practice and share.
Write
a poem, jingle, paragraph, or saying about responsibility.
Research
discoveries and inventions that have had both positive and negative
consequences.
Consider
whether math makes you more responsible. Cite examples.
Research
responsibility in advertising.
Research
responsibility toward indigenous people. Choose a country that was taken from
natives by invaders, setters, or foreign governments.
Survey
your neighborhood to see who needs help.
Write
a skit that demonstrates your school's rules.
Find
a job or start your own business such as a yard service or babysitting.
Make
a family jobs chart.
Create
a responsibility tree to show what you are responsible for doing.
Make
your own daily planner.
Find
examples of popular music that promote responsibility, dependability, and
perseverance.
Examine
the role of responsibility in sports.
Playa
"What's Their Responsibility?" game for various careers.
Read
stories about responsibility.
REFLECTION:
"Being responsible
usually means behaving in ways that don't create problems for other people, and
it also means doing things to fix problems (even other people's problems) when
you see them. A responsible person will never see a problem and ignore it."
Note: Some inputs are credited to Google.
But there are people who cannot accept responsibility and chooses to turn their back against it....,cowards as what I prefer to label them, kase takot humarap sa katotohanan
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Good insights. For me, responsibility is gained through proper upbringing of the parents and right environment exposure. It is hard to impose responsibility unto someone who does not know 'that feeling' of being responsible towards something. Hence, it is just a matter of experience and realization. =]
ReplyDeleteLOL. True story!!! Some people just don't want to be accountable for their own actions. Having responsibility gives you different outlook in life. Makes you appreciate the efforts you put into.
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend!!!
such a scary word... but it's a sign of true maturity
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